Myths, met with truth
Faith-aligned education that replaces fear, silence and misinformation with clarity.
Faith. Knowledge. Wholesome intimacy.Work with Dr. Vera ↗
Christian sexologist · Relationship counsellor
The Sex Evangelist
There is a
better way to
talk about sex.
Evidence-informed, faith-aligned guidance for the intimate life you deserve.
10+ years of
experience
experience
A softer place to begin
01Welcome
You do not have to choose between your values and your wellbeing.
Intimacy is not a topic to fear. It is a part of life to understand.
Dr. Vera Chikezie-Oke is a clinical sexologist, certified clinical sexuality coach and relationship counsellor, accredited by the American Board of Sexologists and the Dr. Rachael Institute of Sexologists. For more than a decade, she has helped individuals and couples replace shame and uncertainty with informed, life-giving connection.
She is married to Pastor Chikezie Oke and is a proud mother of two. Her work is shaped by both professional expertise and a deeply lived belief that healthy intimacy can strengthen homes, marriages and families.
Discover her approach →Her mission
Making room for the conversations that build healthier homes.
Care for every season
In 2024, Dr. Vera championed maternal sexual health advocacy across Lagos State, supporting pregnant and nursing mothers through hospital outreaches.
Knowledge, multiplied
Through Let’s Talk About Sex, she equips professionals to guide others with skill, compassion and confidence.
Who Dr Vera Serves
Intending Couples.
Engaged and wondering what nobody prepares you for? The wedding is the easy part. Let's talk about the marriage bed, so you walk into it informed, confident, and ready for a lifetime of sexual fulfillment, not just one good night.
Newly Married Couples.
The honeymoon phase comes with real questions nobody warned you about, whether that's learning each other's bodies for the first time or wondering why a baby hasn't come yet even though you're “doing everything right.” Dr Vera walks new couples through both the intimacy learning curve and the conception journey with clarity, not guesswork.
Long Married Couples.
Kids arrived. Careers took over. Bodies changed. And somewhere in the busyness of life, the fire that once felt unstoppable started to dim. If that's you, this isn't the end of your intimacy story. It's a chance to rewrite it.
02Ways to work together
A relationship with yourself
Good information changes what feels possible.
Dr. Vera holds space for the questions we were taught not to ask, so you can step into your relationships with confidence, tenderness and truth.
Find your starting point ↗Watch & learn with Dr. Vera
God made sex — and He expects you to enjoy it.
The church said “don’t do it.” The world said “just do it.” But nobody said “here’s how to do it right when you’re married, guilt-free, and God-honouring.”
Watch on YouTube ↗03Signature programmes
Practical tools for every season of your relationship.
Virgin & Thriving
A compassionate, faith-led space to prepare for marriage with confidence and clarity.
Soon to Be Wed
Practical, honest guidance for couples building a lifelong foundation of intimacy.
Mastering the Art of Lovemaking
Learn to communicate, connect, and cultivate an intimate life that is deeply fulfilling.
Couples’ Boot Camp
A focused reset for couples ready to understand each other and move forward together.
From the bookshelf
Thoughtful words for your next chapter.
Explore Dr. Vera’s bestselling books and practical resources for better conversations at home.
Ask about available books →DR. VERAVirgin
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DR. VERA40 reasons
I ditched
my bed
I ditched
my bed
Take the next step
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